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Friday, August 31, 2012

Bad Effect of Dowry System



Bad Effect of Dowry System in Digital Bangladesh

 Marriage nature innate and dynamic link closely preserves God offspring human in life, and achieve its chastity, integrity and purity of both spouses, God has made to this marriage did system and completed, gave him happiness for both spouses, and save them rights.

At the forefront of this system, the imposition of women really the man, not a dowry given to her by a true indication of the associate and desire, and it is the subject of love and righteousness, compassion and sponsorship.
The monopolized the law of Islam on other laws and regulations, as honored women, and well done to them, and have proved their right to ownership and possession of money after it had been in ignorance heirlooms, bought and sold, and this necessitated Islam from advancing to a preacher woman to pay her dowry, a kind of appreciation and respect, not a price or value.
No one should think that the women's dowry price, or the price of beauty, or to enjoy them, or what some people think it is worthless, but right that dowry is a gift from God for women, a right to behave how it wants.
Islam did not specify the amount of dowry and quantity, and of the different people and different levels and their habits, but the general trend in Islamic law tends to reduce it, the same is closer to the spirit of religion, so according to ability and understanding and agreement.
 The nation's scientists believe that they did not appreciate the dowry a certain amount, but left to the parties' agreement father and husband, or the husband and wife, in determined taking into account the suitor and his ability, he says: no sin on you Traded its that Allah was ever Knower, Wise.
The Prophet is showing a lead themselves and example for this nation did not increase in the dowry of his wives or daughters than five hundred dirham.
And has appeared in today's society in ponies and brag in wedding expenses, this tray gilded of the dowry, and those reads silver knotted neatly, and this Beauty, all these increases on the decision of the street-wise, between snobbery phenomenon, added to the banquet cumbersome and banquet halls luxury, all this led the youth to refrain from marriage and to ignore them.
The responsibility  of leaders and science in this community, they had to do duty of advice and guidance and the right and the warning statement from the ill effects of excessive dowries in the cost of weddings that struck our society, where social solidarity? Where the Promotion of Virtue and Prevention of Vice? Must be found to the public from people the best example of the people of virtue and reason in easing Colts, and facilitate the issue of marriage, and away from the costs that are revealed by God for them.
And Islam considered that the women a little whenever her dowry was much goodness,
Obey God - Servants of Allah - and facilitated issue of marriage and ensure you include one whose religious commitment and character, and you desire to money without debt, Money Show fleeting and bare-refundable, and survival of the debt.

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